The I Am A Funeral Director Archives

About the I Am A Funeral Director Series

If you ask a classroom full of kindergarteners what they want to be when they grow up, you will get some interesting answers. The children are likely to explain that they hope to one day be astronauts, doctors, football players, or singers. The responses will probably be just as unique as each individual child answering the question.

However, one response you’re unlikely to hear is: “I want to be a funeral director”. This begs the question - why do people become funeral directors? In a job that is both physically and emotionally demanding, who would want to take on this career full time?

We asked our funeral directors how they came into the deathcare industry, and why the stay. We were shocked by many of their responses.

The job appears on the surface to be so full of sadness, but in reality we found that our funeral directors have chosen this profession because they are selfless caregivers who want to effectively help people during their darkest times. Many form lifelong friendships with the family members they serve. The stories in this series demonstrate how funeral directors are unsung heroes, caring for people each day.

Reaching out to Our Veterans

Neptune Society funeral directors always have and always will support our veterans. Learn about how a Minneapolis funeral director carries out this vocation.

High Heel Run

Read on to learn how a Texas funeral director is an active member of his community, and uses these connections to make those he serves feel comfortable.

More Than Just a Funeral Director

Being a funeral director is a rewarding profession, particularly when it can offer you many different ways of serving clients. Read on to learn how they help.

Networking and Gardening

Funeral directors must become a part of their communities by actively getting involved, and it’s always nice when these efforts are appreciated!

More Than Just A Job

Being a funeral director is more than a 9 to 5 job, it is a fulfilling career that requires being a trusted member of the community.

Finding New Friends

A funeral director’s care doesn’t end after the memorial service. A Tampa funeral director found friendship and common ground with one of his clients.

Services for Those Who Served Our Country

Neptune Society is proud to be able to help the bravest members of our community in any way that they can. Read about how our Dallas office got involved to help.

Grateful for Your Gratitude

Our funeral directors are always proud and humbled when the families they serve take the time to thank them for their extremely hard work.

Funeral Directors Are Here For You

No matter how unique of a service you need, our funeral directors work tirelessly to give your loved one a special memorial to celebrate their life.

Much More Than A Funeral Director

Read about how our funeral directors care about more than serving our clients’ cremation needs, but getting them through the hardest times however they can.

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Recent Reviews

While my husband's death was expected, it is never easy... Read More

While my husband’s death was expected, it is never easy when it actually occurs. Perhaps 2 years ago, I was in touch with Neptune Society in Florida where I live, and I had a basic understanding of the service being offered, did not take a contract at the time, and the actual death occurred New Jersey. Alvin Chan was a blessing! From the moment I reached him, we were able to communicate easily, he understood everything I was trying to achieve overall, and he worked with me seamlessly to make it happen. There were many moving parts, but on his end, he achieved everything ahead of schedule, was patient when I had delays, and especially the delay of our chosen urn being shipped up from home in Florida, but he was steadfast in supporting our wishes and everything went without a moment of anxiety. I am proud of the work that Neptune does and so grateful for the kindness, compassion, and professionalism showed by Alvin to my family. He happened to be a great guy, extremely warm and caring. It was a pleasure to have him available to us, and he went out of his way to accommodate me including meeting with me in my lobby when necessary. I couldn’t have asked for more! Accolades to Neptune Cremation Society in Paramus and Alvin Chan.

Barbara P.

Bradenton, FL

My dad passed away this past September in Arizona, I... Read More

My dad passed away this past September in Arizona, I live in Michigan and the Neptune Society in Arizona was such a great help in dealing with the passing of my dad. Thankfully my dad had all of his arrangements taken care of so all I had to do was sign a few papers, John was very helpful in sending them to me and guiding me through the process of sending them back to them. Thank you for being so kind and considerate in my time of sorrow I very much appreciate that.

Micki K.

Muskegon, MI

To have a funeral or a cremation for a loved... Read More

To have a funeral or a cremation for a loved one is always a difficult time, however, I want to thank Kelly and Gabby for their outstanding work in helping me with all of the paperwork and logistics in getting things orderly done in the cremation process of my father. They were very understanding and compassionate, willing to go above and beyond in their assistance of ensuring everything was taken care of during the process and extremely professional. I highly recommend Neptune Society if cremation is right for your family.

Edward A.

West Palm Beach, FL

The support and efficiency of the Reno office staff were... Read More

The support and efficiency of the Reno office staff were sincerely appreciated during this emotional and stressful event. Their experience and guidance through the process enabled our family to understand and complete the required actions in a timely manner. They have also provided ongoing emotional support opportunities. Thank You.

Carolyn K.

Reno, NV

Raymond Scott at the Neptune Society in Plantation made sure... Read More

Raymond Scott at the Neptune Society in Plantation made sure everything went smoothly during this difficult time. He drove to Boca Raton Regional Hospital to get the doctors signature so I could receive my mother’ss death certificate quickly. Thanks again

Jennifer R.

Fort Lauderdale, FL

My father recently passed away and had purchased a cremation... Read More

My father recently passed away and had purchased a cremation years ago. Alejandro was very kind and understanding during this difficult time. I would highly recommend the Neptune Society to anyone.

Leah M.

Niwot, CO

James, Thank you. I want to tell you how much... Read More

James,

Thank you. I want to tell you how much you have done to help me through this. My parents did very well in choosing you and your company.

Thank you,

Bettina V.

Denver, CO

Caroline at the Neptune Society in Sherman Oaks was very... Read More

Caroline at the Neptune Society in Sherman Oaks was very helpful and very considerate towards arcades Edwards concerning my Husband’s remains

Gladys

Los Angeles, CA

October 16, 2018, started like any other day; but midway... Read More

October 16, 2018, started like any other day; but midway through, I found out my Father David was rushed to the hospital with chest pain. Sadly, by the time my Mother arrived, he had already passed away. The sudden loss of our beloved family member left us in shock and despair. In the midst of our crisis, we contacted the Neptune Society. My Mother learned of them through the Star Center in Dania Beach Florida, where my Father was an instructor and trained thousands of maritime officers before his retirement about 4 years ago.

I was personally contacted by Chris Rhodes of The Neptune Society who immediately put me at ease. At the time there was so much sadness and confusion relating to the passing of my Father. Chris was compassionate and understanding while he explained the process. I remember crying a few times and he paused and even comforted me. He was supportive and professional and used a language that I desperately needed. He told me “Your Father is in our care.” Chris reiterated this a few times throughout the process and let me know in a loving way that my Father was being “cared for.” Initially, after his passing, my Father’s remains were at the hospital. Chris and the Neptune Society arranged for his pick up, in order to be transported to the Medical Examiner’s office. Since my Father’s wishes were to be cremated and spread at sea, Chris made the arrangements with a wonderful funeral home nearby. There was also paperwork that needed to be filled out and signed; Chris streamlined the process and made it very easy for me during this difficult time.

Although I knew my Father’s wishes were to be cremated and his ashes spread at sea; having to go through the process would have been daunting. Not only did Chris and the Neptune Society handle all the details, but they also provided a beautiful scattering urn which is specifically designed for an (at-sea burial.) During my communications with Chris, I told him my Father was a Navy Veteran. A few weeks after his memorial, my Mother opened a package from the Neptune Society. It was a beautiful American Flag in my Father’s honor. October 16, 2018, started like any other but by the end of that day, our lives had changed forever. As we struggle to put one foot in front of the other and march forward; we are forever grateful to the Neptune Society, and specifically Chris Rhodes for the time, care and attention to took during one of our darkest hours.

With the deepest of gratitude,

Cindy

Cindy D.

Fort Lauderdale / Pompano Beach, FL

Alvin Chan has a highly professional manner. When my brother... Read More

Alvin Chan has a highly professional manner. When my brother passed away in New York and I live in Texas, he made a complicated situation an easy one. I would highly recommend Mr. Chan.

Susan N.

Granbury, TX

The I Am A Funeral Director Archives

About the I Am A Funeral Director Series

Reaching out to Our Veterans

High Heel Run

More Than Just a Funeral Director

Networking and Gardening

More Than Just A Job

Finding New Friends

Services for Those Who Served Our Country

Grateful for Your Gratitude

Funeral Directors Are Here For You

Much More Than A Funeral Director

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