I'm so bummed out. I just "looked Judd up" as I was writing about my days at Cagney & Lacey-when he and I became friends and how he, Debbie and I would hang out-often.
I figured it was time I reached out and said, Hi.
Sending all my love to his family,
Leonardo
(formerly the artist known as Robert)

Dearest lovely youngest brother Judd, 
I miss you more than words can say. This is your first birthday without you on planet earth, and it’s a lesser and lonelier place for that.  You were so strong at the end, and always with the courage of your convictions. You enter my mind at various times and I’m immediately struck with a deep sadness that you’re not around to talk to, laugh with, even argue with. I’ll take anything!!  I miss your smile, laughter, and seeing you with your kids. Boy, do they miss you. Happy birthday, brother today and always. Love, Steph

I am so glad I had the pleasure to get to know Judd through Carrie. I could see from the beginning he had a kind and caring spirit and clearly adored her. He was warm and friendly and welcoming. Considering I hadn't known him that long, I felt very comfortable around him. He was easy to be around, with a great sense of humor. He was a very determined and positive person, which showed in his optimism and determination to survive. Despite the odds, he was incredibly brave and strong in the way he fought for his life. He endured more than anyone should have to and managed to still be positive..I admire him for it and I don't know how he did it, but he persevered no matter what. He was a true warrior. Our lives have all been enriched by his presence and example and I hope he now has the peace he so deserves.--Nina Gordon

Judd was truly a spiritual warrior who always maintained his certainty and optimism in a time of dark and cruel circumstances. He never faltered in his half-full outlook during his illness and was an inspiration to so many of us who witnessed his courage and belief. Even though he was so sadly taken from us, he has left an indelible mark on our hearts and souls and will always remind us that its not what we take with us when we depart, but whose lives we touched and who loved us. I knew him only briefly but Judd has touched my life with his bravery and sense of humor. Rest well and know you accomplished your mission in this lifetime.

I met Judd while I was married to David Olin.  Judd went to High School with David as well as being his roommate at UW LaCrosse.  Judd was without a doubt one of the most compassionate people I have been blessed to know.  He and I suffered from RA in our 20's.  He always asked how I was doing.  When my doctor told my getting pregnant could put my RA in remission, we joked on how it wasn't fair that was an option for him too.  Regardless of everything life throw at him, he had such joy, love and compassion.  The world is a little darker without his light.

I met Judd through Caroline, he was a sweet and caring soul. Sadly it was when he was diagnosed and he never really seemed himself - I would have loved to have know him prior... The thing we connected well with was my music playlists - Judd - 'Play That Funky Music White Boy...'


The world has lost an exceptional human being.  Let it be said, let it be embraced- Judd was one of the Best.

HIs life was principled, kind, positive, and fair- he lived it well indeed.  There was a unique presence to the way that Judd dealt with people, and what the world presented.  We all felt it, recognized it, and maybe seeing a glint in his eye just knew that it was his way.  And then there was his humor.  

I was fortunate to become friends with him in high school, at Breck.  There are so many shared tales, and such profound memories of everything that being young, slightly crazy, and highly motivated to live, oh, now, entailed.  What a gift, and then many more as the years unfolded.

For my longstanding, enduring part, it is an honor and a privilege to be his friend.

Dear Judd,

I'm glad we had a chance to talk recently.  Your beautiful spirit came through strongly in spite of your most difficult circumstances.  You will be missed greatly.

Dear Judd,

I will always miss talking with you on the phone.  Your positive approach to life was a wonder.  Although we did not see each other often in recent years, I will always remember your beautiful smile and your joyful take on life.  I fantasize that Larry will be there to welcome you.  My heart goes out to your children who will miss you greatly.

I was never able to meet Judd, but felt as if I knew him through the loving words of my PIC, Carrie. My heart breaks for his family and friends left behind, especially the love of his life, Carrie. May the memories stay ingrained in your hearts  forever, and know he may have left his body, but his soul will live on in all who knew him.

I met Judd in the late 70s in Madison, Wi. He went to college with one of our dear music friends. It wasn't long before we were playing music together. Judd would would throw parties at the small house that he rented. He would have to take his water bed apart so we could set up his Marimba, and all the other music gear and we'd play music. I remember the floor shaking in that old little house from people dancing and have fun.

Judd played George Gibbs, one of the leads in a Madison Childrens Theater production of Our Town. I was the sound designer on that show, I am pretty sure Judd got me that gig. Whenever I hear Copland's beautiful theme I think of Judd on a ladder.

He moved to LA with his dog Bebop, where he was pursuing becoming an editor and I visited him in the 80's. He let me drive his old VW Karmann Ghia around LA while he was working. We got free Lakers tickets, we went to the beach in Malibu, and we had Sushi, first time for me, (after some Saki inspired courage).

I got to spend time with Judd again in LA in 2019, he was struggling health wise but was improving and I really cherish that time. He came to a house party I was playing at with some friends. It was like old times: move all the furniture, tap a keg and play some music. Seeing him smile and be happy doing something he enjoyed so much made me happy. I didn't realize at the time that we had kind of completed a circle. Sometimes you never know when it's the last time you will see somebody. But if it has to happen I am really glad it was at party where music was being played and he was lighting up that big grin he had.

Judd was a kind, sweet, funny and caring soul and we are gonna miss him!

I had a few delightful lunch dates with Judd and Carrie.. I wish I had known Judd better. Carrie and I have been friends for years. I know how deviated she is having lost him. I send my sincere condolences to his family and all who loved him.
Kelly karlstein

Rest In Peace, sweet man. I will always admire your courage and good spirits in the face of adversity. You are much loved, no greater gift.

Juddy Buddy,

You were the best friend I ever had. You were always honest with me, generous, and funny. You taught me how to be positive, especially in the face of adversity. Thank you for not yelling at me when we went hiking and I complained. You just kept saying, this is the last hill then it's all down from here. I followed you to find out that was not the last hill. You'd climb the next one, turn around, smile at me as you waited for me to catch up and kept that smile as I screamed at you for pushing me so hard. Thank you for all the lessons you taught me. Thank you for being there when I called you to talk.  Thank you for putting up with me and my wacky emotions. I love and miss you.

Judd,

Thank you for your love, compassion, and support of and for my mother. You mean and meant so much to her and I am grateful for your time together. 

Scooby Dubois misses you, and so do I.

Judd -

Your endless optimism, sweet smile and kind heart will always be remembered by everyone who was lucky enough to have you in their life.  You will be greatly missed my friend.......

Judd, I didn't know you for long, but through Carrie we became friends.  I have never seen such tenacity in another human being.  In the face of great adversity you were truly a rock star! So brave and deeply loved by many.  Which is the true testament of a life well lived.  Keep smiling that sweet smile and I hope the next chapter is beautiful my friend. See you next time ❤

Judd, I will miss our talks about live, loves, and work. Most of all I'll miss your cookies. Every meeting was always better when you were there.
To the memory of absent friends who have gone into the light. Your arrival there brightens that world, but dims ours. Rest in peace my friend.

Dear Judd, 
I will never stop missing your sense of humor, your strength, courage, and perseverance. I will continue to talk to you because I can't imagine not doing so. I just hope you've landed in some form of a Good Place, enjoying yourself without a care in the world. I love you, my Brother.

My adorable cousin gave everyone so much joy and showed me how to love generously and without judgement ..... he will be so missed  x diana

Judd,

Thank you for the time that we had together, for the laughter and for your unconditional love.  I will never forget you.  RIP my darling man.  Love you always.❤❤❤❤❤Caroline

OBITUARY

Judd Maslansky

July 23, 1959 – April 23, 2020

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